I agree 100%
I agree 100%
I did not read all the responses but I really have to get involved in this. Are you people kidding. Since when would a woman make advances to a complete stranger? One that stinks no less. Talk about your childhood fantasies! THAT DOES NOT HAPPEN. I just treat 'em like anyone else, hello, the trail was hard today, good night and head for the ol' stealth site. and we will never see each other again.
Well said Sierra, A woman should not be put in a place of fear. We go to the woods to hike not to be preyed upon. I will say that in all the sections that I have done I have only met one man that made me leery, everyone else has been gentlemen.
100% disagree. I think just like in regular society, people will either attract others or they won't. Ladies will turn down unwanted advances just like in regular society. BTW: What about when women flirt with men? Should there be a "lady's rule"? Also, what about this one? My lady LIKES women...lol...should she not flirt when she feels like it? We all know how to act respectful even when flirting. The ones that don't will weed themselves out. I don't think we need to picture them as our grandmothers in order to be respectful. But hey, that's just my opinion. Common Sense will prevail in most cases.
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This thread completely explains why the book 'Men Are From Mars and Women Are From Venus' was so popular. The earlier post about common respect was 100% correct. Sierra...your initial comments about enjoying being treated special because you are a woman for me is complete silliness on the trail. Yes, in my 'real' life, my husband who is a true Southern gentlemen treats me with those niceties. However, on the trail, I take care of myself. I don't expect a man to carry anything for me, but do need a bit more privacy than a fellow male hike. Being old-school, I do not appreciate crude language anywhere!
That this conversation even exists demonstrates we have not evolved very far as a species....
Thank you for understanding. As a solo lady hiker I never met a 'fellow' hiker who was anything but polite. And no, it is not sexist. I felt safer walking on the trail than I do walking to my apartment. I applaud the gentlemen of the trail! Whichway
So what you are saying there Bill is that we shouldn't work up an ol' Number 6?
Yeah that's to bad, that was a sweet gig for many, and for a long time...a gift horse.
I'm no gentleman! I grew up with sisters. One of my older ones used to think bullying me was appropriate until I was big enough to defend myself. I never could go along with friends that would "never hit a girl". What sexist BS! If she hit me (yes, as a kid only!) I didn't see why us guys couldn't hit back. I also don't see why a guy should open the door for a woman and not have her return the favor when the opportunity is there.
That all being said, I completely, and strongly, agree with the sentiment of treating women on the trail as sister, mother, grandmother. If there were 10 women to every man on the trail, the issue might be different. But, as a significant minority on the trail, even a small minority of men hitting on the women starts to become overwhelming and unpleasant.
It may also be that if rickb had acted otherwise, his now wife wouldn't have been as interested in him. Dudes, being hard to get is often how you get, and the take-away is one of the most powerful sales techniques every. You don't have to turn down an invitation, but, good golly, given the gender disparity of thru-hikers, be a little different from the masses and give the women some breathing room and encourage the others around you do to the same.
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