River11, although yes, you will meet people out there. I also understand where you're coming from. It's a challenge, but I hope you find someone that will fit in with what you're looking for. There's safety as well that someone knows where you are in general, or if you don't show up at night at a shelter when you were just a mile behind them at lunch.
So many people like to solo hike, but there are also those who don't. I like both, depends on many factors....time of year, section hiking, compatibility between hiking buddies, etc.
It's not foolish to try to find someone, nor to think you can stay together. People finish together all the time!
There's also something to be said for helping someone else when you don't feel like it - and being encouraged when you don't feel great or are having a cruddy day. Most activities where you have a partner or buddy tend to be more successful in many ways. But like any relationship, expect bumps and misunderstanding, and hopefully you'll both be mature enough to move on and over any disagreements which always builds character.