Hello again!
Thank you all once again for your advice on trekking poles vs no trekking poles! I have another question. I'm hoping that someone will be able to give me some advice on how to ease the fears of a loved one. A bit of background: I grew up in Florida where the land is flat. Growing up, most of my time outside was in the shrubby bush where there was not a lot of elevation gain or rough terrain. Also, the wildlife in Florida is different and the biggest concerns are snakes and mosquitoes. In January of 2022, we had to move to Mississippi because of my husband's job. This move opened a lot of doors for me as far as places to hike--and I love it! I am a short drive to Alabama and Arkansas--both great places for hiking. Tennessee and Missouri are also close, but I haven't made it there yet.
I have evolved my outdoorsman ship (is that a word???) since then and made a ton of mistakes the first time me and my son went camping in October of 2022. I have learned a lot and have since learned about leave no trace, learned about (and became certified in) wilderness first aid, learned how to pack the 10 essentials, and how to read blazes. I have also taught my 8 year old son theses things. And he has taught others. Last year, I asked for and received a Garmin In Reach mini for Christmas. I have been on a few overnights to multiple places, including the Sipsey Wilderness in Alabama. I haven't gone on longer trips because I work.
Recently, I have planned to use some time off to finally start our first section hike of the AT with my son. We are extremely excited about this trip! As we have gotten closer, my husband has become more nervous. He is afraid of bears. He is afraid of me getting lost with Daniel. He is afraid of one of us falling and getting injured. He is afraid of us getting heat stroke. So now, he is insisting that he goes with us.
The problem is, he doesn't really enjoy hiking and camping. He likes to relax. And that's fine, but I am afraid if he goes with us, he will make it miserable. He will carry his fears with us. Additionally, he is not in great shape and I worry that if he doesn't practice before the trip, he might have a health emergency. I believe that me and my son can do it, but I'm not so sure about him. If he could go and enjoy it, I would love for our family to be together. But if he doesn't enjoy it and he is not ready for it, I'd rather him not. If he doesn't go, he says that our son can't go. This would be devastating since this is our thing that we do together. I would hate to go without him, but I would also hate to miss this trip I want to go on so badly.
How do I either convince my husband to let go of his fears and believe that I can keep me and Daniel safe or convince him to learn to enjoy it and to start seriously training for this trip?????
Please any advice on this would be appreciated! Thank you!
Best regards,
Tasneem