Need a new pad: NeoAir Xlite vs Tensor

[Odd Man Out]

I need a new pad. Here are my needs/wants:
Good for three-season conditions (my current pad is not insulated. good for summer only).
I am a side sleeper, 6' 0", 200 lb, age 62. As such I need pretty good padding.
However I need to keep it light weight, if possible.
I can't sleep on narrow pads so it must be a wide size, but I don't really need the long length.

I was considering the Thermarest NeoAir Xlite and the Nemo Insulated Tensor.
They both come in a long/wide size.
The Nemo is a little less expensive, but price is much less an issue than performance for me.

The Xlite is a few oz lighter and has a slightly higher R value. It also is made of more durable materials (30D vs 20D)

However the Nemo is thicker (3" vs 2.5") so I thought it might be more comfortable. But I worry about its durability.

I am looking for input, especially if someone can speak to the comfort and durability of both.
Thanks

[Deadeye]

I didn't like the Xlite - too noisy, though I've heard it will quiet down with time. I also didn't find it comfortable, I seemed to bob around on it more than other pads. I tried various inflation levels - didn't make much difference.

I find the Tensor more comfortable, and quiet. I can't really speak to the durability, since I haven't worn it out yet, but so far no problems after maybe 10 nights. I do tend to baby my sleep system, and use either a partial z-rest or a 1/8" foam pad underneath any inflatable. At the very least, I use a groundcloth, even in shelters.

[OhioHiker]

Ive had pretty great sleep with a S2S EtherLight. I have the Womens wide. it has slightly more R than the mens and is more wide in the hip area I love it for side sleeping.

https://seatosummitusa.com/products/...d-sleeping-mat

[OwenM]

I don't like NeoAirs, and don't know anything about the Tensor.
Here's a couple that might interest you, as they are wide versions of 6' pads:
https://www.exped.com/usa/en/product...s/synmat-hl-mw

https://www.bigagnes.com/Insulated-A...=1&custcol7=16