I currently had a NeoAir Xlite women's pad. Very comfortable as far as thickness and light, but i sleep on my side and at 20 inches wide my arms dangle off the sides uncomfortably. I'm only 5'3 so i don't need a long pad. Just something in a regular length but with a wider width. Looking at the Exped synmat 7? or any other options you come up with. willing to add a few ounces to sleep better.